Everybody's got an a55hole in 'em. We human beings must simply accept this fact. Jung called it the Shadow. It's that part of you where all your psychic doo-doo ends up, all your insecurities, the stuff about yourself that scares you.
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I never had any intention of reviewing The Secret. In fact, I didn't even intend to read it. My wife made me do it. She makes me do all kinds of stupid things. You want to know a secret? I'll tell you a secret, the secret to a happy marriage: Do all the stupid things your wife tells you to do (or not).